# Dealing with Internet Bullies firmly

**URL:** <https://battlefieldforum.co/t/dealing-with-internet-bullies-firmly/108875>\
**Category:** Off-Topic\
**Created:** [June 10, 2016, 12:01am UTC](https://battlefieldforum.co/t/dealing-with-internet-bullies-firmly/108875 "2016-06-10T00:01:00Z")\
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**Author:** ![Lordmang4](https://battlefieldforum.co/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/l/e19b73/32.png) [@Lordmang4](https://battlefieldforum.co/u/Lordmang4)\
**Post date:** [June 10, 2016, 12:01am UTC](https://battlefieldforum.co/t/dealing-with-internet-bullies-firmly/108875/1 "2016-06-10T00:01:00Z")

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For those who claim that “you shouldn’t be on the internet if you can’t take being insulted or ridiculed”, you probably won’t like this story:

[http://bleacherreport.com/articles/2645322-cleveland-fan-gets-fired-for-rude-tweets-at-steph-currys-sister-regarding-riley](http://bleacherreport.com/articles/2645322-cleveland-fan-gets-fired-for-rude-tweets-at-steph-currys-sister-regarding-riley)

A person was fired from his job for attacking Curry’s sister via Twitter. I’m grateful that there are still some employers/companies out there who take bullying/attacking others via the cyberspace seriously and are willing to put a stop to it.

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**Author:** ![Professor\_Memes](https://battlefieldforum.co/user_avatar/battlefieldforum.co/professor_memes/32/103172_2.png) [@Professor\_Memes](https://battlefieldforum.co/u/Professor_Memes)\
**Post date:** [June 10, 2016, 1:23am UTC](https://battlefieldforum.co/t/dealing-with-internet-bullies-firmly/108875/2 "2016-06-10T01:23:00Z")

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With those kind of “people skills” I’m amazed that dude managed to get a job at all.

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**Author:** ![Lordmang4](https://battlefieldforum.co/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/l/e19b73/32.png) [@Lordmang4](https://battlefieldforum.co/u/Lordmang4)\
**Post date:** [June 10, 2016, 2:12am UTC](https://battlefieldforum.co/t/dealing-with-internet-bullies-firmly/108875/3 "2016-06-10T02:12:00Z")

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OR we could simply not bully others at all, regardless of the medium.

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**Author:** ![Keif68](https://battlefieldforum.co/user_avatar/battlefieldforum.co/keif68/32/100928_2.png) [@Keif68](https://battlefieldforum.co/u/Keif68)\
**Post date:** [June 10, 2016, 2:35am UTC](https://battlefieldforum.co/t/dealing-with-internet-bullies-firmly/108875/4 "2016-06-10T02:35:00Z")

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I bet if you were to meet these bullies face to face, they’d cowar like a little b…

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**Author:** ![HCAR\_HCAR\_HCAR](https://battlefieldforum.co/user_avatar/battlefieldforum.co/hcar_hcar_hcar/32/102184_2.png) [@HCAR\_HCAR\_HCAR](https://battlefieldforum.co/u/HCAR_HCAR_HCAR)\
**Post date:** [June 10, 2016, 2:01pm UTC](https://battlefieldforum.co/t/dealing-with-internet-bullies-firmly/108875/5 "2016-06-10T14:01:00Z")

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No one has thick skin anymore.

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**Author:** ![ThePoolshark](https://battlefieldforum.co/user_avatar/battlefieldforum.co/thepoolshark/32/103801_2.png) [@ThePoolshark](https://battlefieldforum.co/u/ThePoolshark)\
**Post date:** [June 10, 2016, 2:42pm UTC](https://battlefieldforum.co/t/dealing-with-internet-bullies-firmly/108875/6 "2016-06-10T14:42:00Z")

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I like that comment at the end “Hey right ?!? I lost my job but they lost the game. Who really lost here ?”

You did, guy… lol

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**Author:** ![Professor\_Memes](https://battlefieldforum.co/user_avatar/battlefieldforum.co/professor_memes/32/103172_2.png) [@Professor\_Memes](https://battlefieldforum.co/u/Professor_Memes)\
**Post date:** [June 10, 2016, 9:33pm UTC](https://battlefieldforum.co/t/dealing-with-internet-bullies-firmly/108875/7 "2016-06-10T21:33:00Z")

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> [@ThePoolshark](#):
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> I like that comment at the end “Hey right ?!? I lost my job but they lost the game. Who really lost here ?”
> 
> You did, guy… lol

LOL, I didn’t see that. Yea, let’s see. He probably makes like 40k a year and needs his job to live, the NBA players are set for life no matter the outcome of the game.

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**Author:** ![Lordmang4](https://battlefieldforum.co/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/l/e19b73/32.png) [@Lordmang4](https://battlefieldforum.co/u/Lordmang4)\
**Post date:** [June 10, 2016, 9:42pm UTC](https://battlefieldforum.co/t/dealing-with-internet-bullies-firmly/108875/8 "2016-06-10T21:42:00Z")

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@ThePoolshark @Professor_Memes  
To be fair, most internet bullies aren’t know for being particularly intelligent. 🙂

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**Author:** ![Lordmang4](https://battlefieldforum.co/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/l/e19b73/32.png) [@Lordmang4](https://battlefieldforum.co/u/Lordmang4)\
**Post date:** [June 11, 2016, 2:06am UTC](https://battlefieldforum.co/t/dealing-with-internet-bullies-firmly/108875/9 "2016-06-11T02:06:00Z")

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Ahhh yes. The “survival of the fittest” doctrine.  
It’s amazing just how little we’ve progressed as a society after all this time.  
That and some gamers are socially maladjusted and can’t relate to their non-gaming peers.

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**Author:** ![Lordmang4](https://battlefieldforum.co/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/l/e19b73/32.png) [@Lordmang4](https://battlefieldforum.co/u/Lordmang4)\
**Post date:** [June 11, 2016, 7:09am UTC](https://battlefieldforum.co/t/dealing-with-internet-bullies-firmly/108875/10 "2016-06-11T07:09:00Z")

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Yes, because being polite and civil to others is making the world a worse place to live.  
And this is why I have no friends who are gamers.  
No, all my friends are relatively much more socially adept and adjusted.  
It’s a small price to pay that none of them are gamers.

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**Author:** ![Rusted\_Ace2013](https://battlefieldforum.co/user_avatar/battlefieldforum.co/rusted_ace2013/32/103327_2.png) [@Rusted\_Ace2013](https://battlefieldforum.co/u/Rusted_Ace2013)\
**Post date:** [June 11, 2016, 5:28pm UTC](https://battlefieldforum.co/t/dealing-with-internet-bullies-firmly/108875/11 "2016-06-11T17:28:00Z")

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The world is full of people who have little to no respect for others and want to make others suffer to feel “good” and get attention anyway they can. The Internet is the perfect place for these types of people where they can hide behind a user name and reach an audience of many people.

I handle it by choosing to ignore these types of people as they tend to stick to their toxic ways and let them deal with the consequences of their actions regardless if it’s just making themselves look bad to action taken against their account(s) or involving real life consequences such as being fired from their job and civil lawsuits to criminal charges.

The best way to avoid toxic people is to surround yourself with good people who will support you. I’d rather have 10 friends who are outstanding people and accept me for who I am in both good and bad times than 100 friends that are questionable and won’t stick by my side during bad times.

Evil is successful only when good people do nothing about it. While the 1st Amendment to the US Constitution allows people the right to say whatever they want, whenever they choose to say it, however they choose to say it, and what form of media to say it on, it won’t shield them from the consequences of their words.

The only way society will change is if people can stand up to these people in the right way for the situation. Ignoring their posts and videos works fine for the Internet(Facebook is full of these people), but dealing with them in person is another ballpark, especially if it’s your family. Promoting the good in this world while ignoring stupid stuff and giving lots of attention to the people that make this world a better place while denying attention to bad people.

Bullies can only win if you drop to their level to deal with them.

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**Author:** ![mkk555](https://battlefieldforum.co/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/m/f1d935/32.png) [@mkk555](https://battlefieldforum.co/u/mkk555)\
**Post date:** [June 12, 2016, 6:11am UTC](https://battlefieldforum.co/t/dealing-with-internet-bullies-firmly/108875/12 "2016-06-12T06:11:00Z")

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How To Deal With Online Bullies: ignore them. It’s the internet not high school where you nerds have to deal with kids beating you up. seriously.

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**Author:** ![Maddayz](https://battlefieldforum.co/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/m/3bc359/32.png) [@Maddayz](https://battlefieldforum.co/u/Maddayz)\
**Post date:** [June 13, 2016, 5:23am UTC](https://battlefieldforum.co/t/dealing-with-internet-bullies-firmly/108875/13 "2016-06-13T05:23:00Z")

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_safespace intensifies_

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**Author:** ![Vespervin1](https://battlefieldforum.co/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/v/278dde/32.png) [@Vespervin1](https://battlefieldforum.co/u/Vespervin1)\
**Post date:** [June 13, 2016, 5:31am UTC](https://battlefieldforum.co/t/dealing-with-internet-bullies-firmly/108875/14 "2016-06-13T05:31:00Z")

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> [@Sky\_collapsed](#):
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> What I was talking about wasn’t about been nice to people per se, I’m normally pretty friendly to people in real life, that is unless they do something to annoy me, than I turn into a raging .
> 
> When I am talking about people wanting things to change to suit their silly sensitivities wasn’t about people been nice or mean to each other, it was people wanting to see things banned or restricted because it offends them.
> 
> A few examples can be made.
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> Fireworks is one; here, night has been constantly getting restricted and fireworks in general getting restricted banned because of Drs and nurses crying about having to continually treat people with burns who abused and misused fireworks, this resulted in the banning of fireworks in the majority of states in Australia or with going ahead with ever increasing restrictions, because of quite literally, a very small minority of people who misused the fireworks and hurt themselves, this than lead to night been stopped or going ahead with further restrictions or having fireworks outlawed which resulted in an overall more negative result for the majority of people who were sensible with them.
> 
> night was a great social gathering, I have some fun memories of it, going to a friends house who lives on an acerage 5+ acres and I brought in a home made sparkler bomb and let it off and we made a huge bonfire and and tossed little containers of petrol in it for and giggles.
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> But now we can’t do that because night here has essentially been banned.
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> Another example is firearms; yeah yeah, I know. But if someone has had a background check and passed the test and competency course (This is Australia) than It is no one’s business what they own, unless they try purchasing an rpg or a tank. If they want an ar-15 they should be allowed it, if they want a lever action they should be allowed it.
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> But increasingly, we’re getting lefty green tards who feel scared when they see these rifles and want to have them banned or restricted to very very few people purely because it scares them, none of them come up with logical arguments and always ignore New Zealand where you can more or less what you want.
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> Another problem, is the sjw’s trying to stop you from saying certain words with laws like section 18c of the anti discrimination act in Australia which does nothing but restrict free speech and adhere to sjw thought process as 18c essentially makes it illegal to offend people.
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> Than there’s people getting offended by verbal bullying which I find to be personally amusing, as they are allowing themselves to get offended over something that shouldn’t really affect them, for some inane reason, does.
> 
> I could probably go on, but I would assume that you now understand where I am coming from.

+1

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**Author:** ![thatcrazyguy1234](https://battlefieldforum.co/user_avatar/battlefieldforum.co/thatcrazyguy1234/32/101585_2.png) [@thatcrazyguy1234](https://battlefieldforum.co/u/thatcrazyguy1234)\
**Post date:** [June 14, 2016, 10:09pm UTC](https://battlefieldforum.co/t/dealing-with-internet-bullies-firmly/108875/15 "2016-06-14T22:09:00Z")

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Just walk away.  
Done

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**Author:** ![Lordmang4](https://battlefieldforum.co/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/l/e19b73/32.png) [@Lordmang4](https://battlefieldforum.co/u/Lordmang4)\
**Post date:** [June 14, 2016, 10:10pm UTC](https://battlefieldforum.co/t/dealing-with-internet-bullies-firmly/108875/16 "2016-06-14T22:10:00Z")

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Ignoring a problem is tantamount to being a part of the problem.

Problems require solutions so that others aren’t harassed and persecuted.

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**Author:** ![ilikem14](https://battlefieldforum.co/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/i/aeb1de/32.png) [@ilikem14](https://battlefieldforum.co/u/ilikem14)\
**Post date:** [June 15, 2016, 1:30am UTC](https://battlefieldforum.co/t/dealing-with-internet-bullies-firmly/108875/17 "2016-06-15T01:30:00Z")

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> [@Lordmang4](#):
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> For those who claim that “you shouldn’t be on the internet if you can’t take being insulted or ridiculed”, you probably won’t like this story:
> 
> [http://bleacherreport.com/articles/2645322-cleveland-fan-gets-fired-for-rude-tweets-at-steph-currys-sister-regarding-riley](http://bleacherreport.com/articles/2645322-cleveland-fan-gets-fired-for-rude-tweets-at-steph-currys-sister-regarding-riley)
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> A person was fired from his job for attacking Curry’s sister via Twitter. I’m grateful that there are still some employers/companies out there who take bullying/attacking others via the cyberspace seriously and are willing to put a stop to it.

I think it is becoming more aware to society the issue. remember, we have been transitioning to a new era with the digital revolution; Society evolves faster than our resolve to deal with new problems but nonetheless, resolution usually comes

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**Author:** ![Lordmang4](https://battlefieldforum.co/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/l/e19b73/32.png) [@Lordmang4](https://battlefieldforum.co/u/Lordmang4)\
**Post date:** [June 15, 2016, 1:31am UTC](https://battlefieldforum.co/t/dealing-with-internet-bullies-firmly/108875/18 "2016-06-15T01:31:00Z")

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Ah yes, it’s the “Let’s blame the victim / raped woman” position.  
It never gets old hearing others using it. It’s a shame that others actually believe it.  
I don’t. Not for a second.

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**Author:** ![ilikem14](https://battlefieldforum.co/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/i/aeb1de/32.png) [@ilikem14](https://battlefieldforum.co/u/ilikem14)\
**Post date:** [June 15, 2016, 1:35am UTC](https://battlefieldforum.co/t/dealing-with-internet-bullies-firmly/108875/19 "2016-06-15T01:35:00Z")

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> [@Lordmang4](#):
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> Ah yes, it’s the “Let’s blame the victim / raped woman” position.  
> It never gets old hearing others using it. It’s a shame that others actually believe it.  
> I don’t. Not for a second.

But i didnt blame nobody :’ (

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**Author:** ![Lordmang4](https://battlefieldforum.co/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/l/e19b73/32.png) [@Lordmang4](https://battlefieldforum.co/u/Lordmang4)\
**Post date:** [June 15, 2016, 1:38am UTC](https://battlefieldforum.co/t/dealing-with-internet-bullies-firmly/108875/20 "2016-06-15T01:38:00Z")

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> [@ilikem14](#):
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> > [@Lordmang4](#):
> >
> > Ah yes, it’s the “Let’s blame the victim / raped woman” position.  
> > It never gets old hearing others using it. It’s a shame that others actually believe it.  
> > I don’t. Not for a second.
> 
> But i didnt blame nobody :’ (

I was responding to the person who posted before you. You posted before I could.
